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It seems there is no light in the tunnel for relationship or meetings whatever,i'm complete alone whole lifetime and i have no friends to go out and meet women,neither dating apps can really work for me. :| :roll:

As for diet,i've lost some pounds last month and took it back again due to bad ...

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Why i struggle to lose overweight so far,is something that blocking the situation,i struggle to keep self discipline and stick to a basic plan of nutrition,gym or whatelse.

Element

Still struggling with my father to find a communication channel and peace,i think he hold me back and he isn't supportive to me,financially neither emotionally.

Element

Happy birthday, Element. Your new birthday chart (Solar Return) is the positive one you have been waiting years for!

t Jupiter Asc -3°02'
t Mercury N -0°24'
r Uranus -1°05'
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r Jupiter Z +0°23'
t Uranus EP-a +0°23'
r Saturn Dsc +7°03'
t Saturn Z +2°25'

t Moon co r ...

Element

I lack experience of all you just described,as i hadn't friends in childhood and later years to gain experience with them of "how to" do all that stuff,so i stuck for several years in same point.

Element

I need bad a better salary and a better stable job,to leave parents house and save my life from toxic family enviroment and parents who want to control my own life.

Element

Jim Eshelman wrote: Mon Aug 05, 2024 6:22 am I gave a long answer to exactly this question near the beginning of this thread:
https://solunars.com/viewtopic.php?p=61614#p50441

I seek others members view also.

Element

I'm thinking of stop from current therapy and therapist,after 1 year i cant say i got the help i needed and payed for.

Element

He is not supportive,emotionally,i know he had difficult childhood years and his relationship with his own father wasn't good too.

But will not give a hug or ask anything,this sucks a lot.He is responsible for some of my mental health issues i'm paying last years to overcome without success at all ...

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I think father affects in a negative way,our relationship is cold in general and as his behavior affected my in childhood years,it still affects my life in nowdays. I never had the chance just to leave parents house and feel free,independent,life is expensive out there to make it alone or without ...

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What you think should do from here and now?

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I haven't done any relationship with women yet,why this happening by astrological side,has to do with avodiant elements i have?

Element

I need to try a more powerful

therapy for my mental health issues,group therapy is good but isn't enough so far to reduce symptoms such as social anxiety,morning general anxiety,repressed emotions and more.

Element

I have no relationship last years,an issue is lack of friends as i cannot go outside alone where people meeting and meet women,also i lack experience at flirting,no communication skills too.

It sucks that i cannot have at 37 yo a serious relationship,i feel i havent grow up yet.

Element

Overweight too remain last 2,5 years,doctor warned me 2-3 times to lose some pounds otherewise there is danger for prodiabet stage.

But i feel weakness to control food.

Element

I started to do group psychotherapy since september 2023,will you think is going to deliver into healing success?

Element

Hashimoto came to me due to stress from the workplace during 2019-2021 period,covid-19 with restrictions period.

Parents behavior to me is not supportive,both parents,they cannot understand how i feel.

Element

I think,in my opinion,that is waste of time trying to change parents view or approach,same them trying to change mine so to agree with their line of thinking.

In this case,i lack financials,so to rent even a small house and leave toxic parents house that want to control my life and the way of how ...

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Now for their comparison to your chart as you requested.

Your father's Sun opposes your Moon and squares your Mars. (He actually fuels your Moon-Mars traits, some of which are good (ambition and assertion) but which also are basic to your anxiety conditions. Sun to your Moon means that he is ...

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Jim Eshelman wrote: Tue Jun 04, 2024 8:21 am Where were they born?

Μy father born at a province called Drama https://maps.app.goo.gl/UWL6UShpFVbe7CLWA
My mother born at a province called Kilkis https://maps.app.goo.gl/usM7J4EB8MBbd9eS9

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Please provide full birth data of both of your parents.

My mother details are DOB 7 october 1963,TOB 21:00 am
My father details are DOB 15 october 1956,TOB unknown

Mother bossy and strict about my overweight,overcontroling,to much criticism.Tired of her behavior all over the years.
Father ...

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Ηοw we can do a synastry chart combined mine chart and both parents charts,to see where there are conficts and tensions and how they reflect negative up on me? I think both father and mother in same house together,they affect me in a very negative way in my own life,from early childhood years till ...

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I got generalized anxiety disorder and social anxiety that i cannot grt rid off despite visits and therapies with doctors and psychotherapists,i'm dissapointed.

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Things generally look positive. Studies and work should go well. There's even a chance for some romance (or other distinctive pleasure and connection) three to four months after your birthday.

That's important if they will come,i need to feel i can have success in my life,so to improve and ...

Element

I fear will be alone whole lifetime,it scares me a lot. :|

Even if you're dead-set against moving, I strongly recommend at least visiting one of the locations that Jim mentioned where your Venus comes into the foreground. Give it 3 days to a week, and see how you feel there. It might just ...

Element

I fear will be alone whole lifetime, it scares me a lot. .

Do something about it, then. It's all about you, your actions, your choices.

I'm not saying it's easy. I'm saying positive results will come only from your transformation of yourself by walking into your fear and taking risks.

This ...

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I fear will be alone whole lifetime,it scares me a lot.

Element

I cannot explain why i'm single still at 37,several reasons may occur but i don't know if you read a reason via my birth chart.

Element

Man,look,last 3 years both mental and physical health not going well,i lack courage to fight back,i feel weak to get on right road,also i have into house a bossy mother about pushing and overcritisizing about overweight i gained,that's putting on me extra pressure. :roll:

If after Easter period ...

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I got in my hands last checkup about health,cholesterol,insulin were higher than previous,so that means my situation gone worse.Doctor warned that i should try harder and lose next 3 months 6-8kg,otherwise there is danger about prodiabet stage.I'm a bit scared,as most of my tries last year failed to ...

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Jim Eshelman wrote: Mon Apr 08, 2024 12:14 pm To do that, I'd have to go back and reread every post in all of these threads (I don't remember everything I've written). Perhaps you could review your threads.

Αlirght,i will do it and keep the bolds into a text file of word.

Element

Remind me what you have read about the 2024 about the progress of AVPD and mental health issues and physical health issues such as overweight.

Element

...I think nothing will come of this - it's too late. But if that's not correct, the chart says you'll get your money by some significant surprise in the last half of March.

Provided, of course, that there is anything of substance to this technique.

I still have the secold half of March to ...

Element

Is this could be a bad karma curse like? Why the heck Neptune is that way for me for so long period,i have lot of people sympathise to me but it stays only there,nothing further,i fear to be alone whole life time.

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We have entered into march as the reading suggested,the dude haven't communicated yet.I got decepted?.Will try to communicate next two months,i'm not ready yet to make any move.

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I think will not get married as no relationships so far.

Element

James Condor wrote: Fri Mar 01, 2024 5:17 pm Hey Element, hows your day?

Hello,i have some days good,some days not so good.

Element

I can't think what else I can tell you. I've been over the charts and laid out a long stretch of time. I get the idea that you are looking for a way for me to give a different answer. There isn't going to be a different answer.

No,i don't want a different answer than what you have read so far ...

Element

I need a way better job and salary to boost my career,my finances and achieve goals,otherwise is just a matter of lost life time,in next two years i hope to have solve some of these in my life and focus to balance this life.

Element

It's a good idea to wait till mid april and then try to communicate with the guy to see what happens,what is his response? He gave probably fake promises to get some time to his side and take advantage of "good guy" of mine behavior back then,then he just moved away time by time,supposing that i ...

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Element wrote: Sun Jan 28, 2024 9:17 am How you read the healing about AVPD will go?

Any response here,i fight disorder with group therapy and using reiki healing.

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I have to prepare harder into 2024 to get my basic degree,now i have a bit more time than previous year and will hire a teacher to support me with lessons before the exams.I need to feel succeeded this year.

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How you read the healing about AVPD will go?

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I fear will remail single and alone,i'm 37 yo and i have no stable friends or a relationship,fighting with a personality disorder and mental health issues that need time and maybe years of therapy to be healed,i'm not still able to be social.

Element

Did you encounter him recently? I'm trying to figure out what the partile, separating Moon-Sun sextile is, and my first intuition was it means "encounter with the man." Sun also trines Uranus, applying by 3°, making the element of surprise a major part of the future.

Separating aspects show ...

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That's excellent news.
Congratulations on earning this wonderful result.

I believe i should congratulate you cause you seem too supportive to me and answering all my questions and worries,even if this takes personal time to read a chart.

:P

I have still an issue,an ex-colleague owes me some ...

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Not able to change location,town,country and don't want to actually.

A positive is i got indenfinite contract with current company and job,now i have a stable job without be anxious if will lose job or won't renew me.

Don't remember if you had predicted this positive outcome for career.

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The larger picture, though, is what I mentioned way back at the beginning: Neptune opposes your 2°17' Virgo Sun for a couple of years through spring 2025. During this time, your sense of who you are and where you are going in life will be vague and hard to grasp - dissolved, diffused. Since you ...

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I cannot lose overweight last 2 years,drugs and anxiety drove me to gain much weight and feel weak.

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Can you give me a link to the post where I said that? That way, I can know what I was seeing rather than having to start all over from the beginning. Thanks.

I'm saying about the below prediction reading you had wrote back at september i think.I'm going to procceed further with reiki,at level 2 ...

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