Assistance with Synastry to help me out

[Jryals579]

Love this community and I have learned a lot !

So I have a friend (?)) long story but we are both single and I have for the life
Of me cannot understand our connection we both share. I have never in my life , yes I have dated and even married awhile back , but have something between us that I can’t really explain it, nor can she really . She got me into Astrology and Tarot, which I’m a Scorpio and before her I would never consider but oh boy I have experienced unexplainable events that I am a believer.
I’m a Scorpio , 11-02-1979 , and she is a Cappie , 01-08-1990 ... I have SF and trying to get a synastry report and also an interpretation that we both can read. She is planning to become a certified Astrologer , but for me I need help , we love each other but having a detailed report to assist us both with defining our “situationship”
I have used free resources online but prefer to use SF and gather advice from this community.
Help
pS I downloaded Jim’s interpretation file in SF and wow spot on describing myself

[Jim Eshelman]

Welcome to Solunars! - I'm not sure if you noticed when you logged into the site: This site exists for the study and growth of Sidereal astrology. So, as we measure things, your Sun is in Libra, not Scorpio (your Moon is probably in Pisces), and your friend's Sun is in Sagittarius, not Capricorn (her Moon is probably in Taurus). Since you have Solar Fire, just flip the zodiac over to Sidereal (or "Fagan-Allen" as they call it) and you can see this for yourself.

We'd be happy to help with your questions, especially if you can provide full birth data. Could you add time and place for each of you, please? It makes a significant difference.

pS I downloaded Jim’s interpretation file in SF and wow spot on describing myself

LOL, this is a little embarrassing because it shouldn't have fit well if you read the parts that apply top your Tropical chart. For example, the Sun in Scorpio paragraph was written based on observing Sidereal Scorpios (people born between mid-November and mid-December). However, things like aspect interpretations should have fit you well.

When you write back with your birth data, please add anything else relevant about what kind of relationship you are exploring (e.g., you don't outright say if this is a romantic-sexual relationship or just a friendship with strong mental interests - it would help us make fewer wrong assumptions to know).

At a quick glance, without a birth time or place, there are almost no strong planet interchanges at all. (Her Sun square your Pluto is the main one.) This suggests that, if it's a strong relationship (and it seems to have lasted a while) then Moon and angle contacts are going to be especially important - for which we need time and place. For example, it's possible that her Sun and Mercury closely square your Moon (depending on what time of day you were born), and this would be of verty great importance.

[Jupiter Sets at Dawn]

His (and her) full birth data are here: viewtopic.php?f=11&t=4605
and here: viewtopic.php?f=11&t=25&start=25#p34441

[Jim Eshelman]

His (and her) full birth data are here: viewtopic.php?f=11&t=4605
and here: viewtopic.php?f=11&t=25&start=25#p34441

Thanks, JSAD.

Jason: November 2, 1979, 5:38 PM, Savannah, GA
She: January 8, 1990, 12:32 PM, Savannah, GA

[Danica]

Jason: November 2, 1979, 5:38 PM, Savannah, GA
She: January 8, 1990, 12:32 PM, Savannah, GA

General outline of natals:

You are a Solar Libra, Lunar Pisces, with Sun angular and prominent Pluto; this portrays Venus as quite strong, when it comes to basic ‘flavor’ that runs through, as theme, both Luminaries’ zodiac-related qualities (Venus rules Lubra, and is exalted in Pisces); the expression is Solar, yet Pluto so strong with the Moon shows the need for privacy, for daily time and space of being alone to “process” and reflect.

She’s a Solar Sag, with Sag stellium, Lunar Taurus , with this Moon exalted sharply opposing Mars in Scorpio, and with the Sun – which conjunct Mercury and Saturn – angular.
The sheer number of planets in Sag emphasize the Jovial in the character; yet, this may not immediately come visible in expression when you meet her: Sun is with Mercury and Saturn – there is the intellectual, self-restrained, quite self-reflective and not necessarily too merry-go-round-jolly as one would otherwise see with angular Sag Sun and in the chart with Lunar features as are. The Tau Luna is quite sensual, and this connection with Mars puts it on fire – however there the rational, maybe even cold and distanced, in expression (of the overall demeanor), she is a burning Volcano! – and add to this the Capricorn Venus, for more details on the sharing-affection cluster of needs general tone of nature (Capricorn represented ‘planetarily’ by Saturn and Mars, and mythologically with the Sea-Goat images – look it up in the related section on the forum!)

Synastry notes:

Both of you have the Sun angular, with your chart tending toward the Yin-natured Male, and hers toward the Yang-natured Female, in expression. This gives complementarity which I think helps to balance out the heads-on meeting of two angular Suns

The inter-aspects between your two charts, listed by orb, all dynamic inside 1*, are as follows (yours on the left, hers on the right side of this list):
Me oct Su 05’
Ne oct Ve 15’
Ur oct Ur 28’
Me oct Me 45’
Ma oct Ur 45’
Ve oct Ne 54’

You can look each of this up, from perspective of each person/side, in the Transits section, approaching as if the planet of one partner is transit to the planet of the other; this gives pretty good idea of the nature how the energy flows in each of these planetary contacts.

The doubled Venus-Neptune, in combination with the mutual Me-Me and Ur-Ur, and the Su-Me as the-strongest by orb, gives me an idea of relationship that is primarily based around exchange of ideas, mutually stimulating in intellectual way and refreshing, with the respect for each other’s freedom-needs and unique self-expression, and with a factor of Mystical, or Ideal present (Ve-Ne) that opens up the sensual into Infinity, or binds you into false hopes and unrealistic expectations…
Ma-Ur depicts electricity, or lightening-like charge of energy streaming between the two of you; it may be highly creatively productive, if you have activities together designed to serve on regular basis as channel/s for this energy.


[to be continued]

[Danica]

I've updated the post with notes on Synastry above (- when it's written in full, will delete this comment).