A Spiritual Guide or just another chart

[spirit175]

First of all the data at the disposal of astrologers:
DOB: 17/05/1983
TOB: 03:16 A.M.
POB: Faizabad(Uttar Pradesh, India) [Logitude: 82 degree E 8 minutes. Latitude: 26 degree N 47 minutes...may differ a bit wrt software]

I have analysed the chart a bit(I am not much of an astrologer but knows bit of it) but bit of confused regarding his psychic and spiritual abilities. For your help he is a mechanical engineer(completed in 2008) but is out of job since 2009 march (Had job for a brief period of Jan 2009 to March 2009). And as far I can remember he is into spirituality from late 2002 till now(things I know that he is into yoga,tantra and things related to it))... and seems completely immersed in it, neglecting his worldly duties. He doesnt talk about his spiritual quest and like to remain silent about it and do his spiritual undertakings silently in a room without us knowing. One day I was in much pain on my back due to sprain in my back whole day, he came to me and told to stay still and close my eyes and I dont know what he did but after about 1 min he said to open my eyes and my pain was gone almost instantly. There are many things but cant say all here.
I dont know what he is into and what will become of him. His father died June last year(due to disease). And he was in much pain that he couldn't save him and he says he will bring him back.
I am his mother and wish to know whats going on. Whats his goal in life and whats going on what I am not knowing. Wish the esteemed astrologers have a thorough look and shed some light and unravel the mystery...Thanks in advance if I dont get back in time.

[Jim Eshelman]

Spirit175, welcome to Solunars.

I've looked at your son's chart, and will give myself a little time to compose my answer. I do understand your question and your concern: Your son's chart shows little concern or ambition for most of the activities of the physical world. I will give more details in a full answer, and will try to give something useful in a practical way.

It would help to know something of the circumstances of yours and his life. For example, is the family well settled financially? Is his income necessary for yours and his well-being now, or are you otherwise secure? Similarly, while his education might position him for a significant income, will this be necessary for his later life (for example, when you are no longer with him), or would he be impoverished without income?

Finally, please feel free to share any other details about practical, cultural, or environmental matters that might weigh on practical advice.

I understand your son's psychology fairly well and want to look into what affected him during some key times you mentioned, and then will compose a more complete answer.

[spirit175]

Hi Jim
Thanks for the reply. Regarding income he is not in job anymore and hence no income. Financially we are a bit OK(but not super rich). We all live together and his brother has paralysis with heart problem and might go into operation in coming years(heart surgery) and money will go from our side as his brother too is not well off on income side. I worry when I am gone what will be the result. As family pension which is coming every month will be no more.
My son says not to worry about his future and says "I will not die hungry." Also he doesn't want to marry and says he got much important things to do rather than get entangled in mundane life. He is a bright kid that I know but his views confuses me. One thing more I didnt mentioned is that he started home tuition....tutioning two 8th grade kids this month. I dont know if it helps in analysis...its that he also knows medicine(pref. homoeopathy as for him allopathy is just another poison). I had bone spur in my hands and mainstream medicine didnt do any good and said we had to operate, my son gave two homoeopath medicine and it went away in 1 month. Also he know astrology and predicted about my husbands not so good period and that we have to watch closely and on June 1st he died.
I have a total of 3 sons and 2 daughters including him. All are married and well set except him and my other son who is paralysed and live with me. I am a house wife. Dont know will he well set in material life and his spiritual life I have no idea.
Again thanks for taking the time out.
Take care

[spirit175]

Does anybody have some answers...or its time to move on...

[Veronica]

From one loving mother to another,
I saw your sons most beautiful chart and I was struck by what a unique and brilliant star he is, and I thought what a blessed joy for you to have this person in your life that he must have been a treasure as babe to hold and love and watch unfold like a beautiful child, and he must have been such a source of love for you.

I too have a young man, who I have looked at his chart ( I posted it here, his name is Orion) and asked the powers what be, what I can do to help, to imporove, and to enhance all the wonderful things I know are there.

but my sons chart, like your sons is only a very small fraction of the totality of who they are, and if I was to say that the sun is doing this, and the moon is saying that......I feel that it is a huge injustice to your shiny star who you obviously love so so much, who has at each and every moment a choice, his choice, to live and walk his path as he sees fit, and the only real thing that I can do, you can do, is with love in my heart, Love him as he is, trust that there are unseen forces and influences that are loving and good and are desiring to be expiress, and be the very best person he can be.


You too are a bright and beautiful soul who has so much love to share, and I would love to know more about you and what words does your spark and chart say, because I can loving ly try to find the words to give you what it is you are looking for.

[Jim Eshelman]

Does anybody have some answers...or its time to move on...

Apologies. My workload more than doubled in the last week and I want to answer you when I'm not rushed. I will indeed do so (perhaps over the weekend). Meanwhile, I see Veronica has stepped in and others may have some guidance as well.

[spirit175]

Hi Veronica
Thanks for such wonderful words...It was heartfelt and soothing.Your expression for the blooming of young bud into a beautiful flower was aptly put. We with our motherly love can only nurture them with all the love at our disposal and wish it turns out to be the beautiful one. Be it Orion or my child they are just part of the grand plan be it small or big and we as mothers are playing our part like the motherly nature is playing its part for the multitudes. Wish you and Orion the best of wisdom and luck.

Hi Jim
No need to apologies...Take your own time....complete your work and reply when you feel suitable and time is right.

Take care both of you....

[Danica]

Spirit175,

your son is right now going through a 2-yearish transit of Pluto to his natal Moon; it started in March 2017 and will end in February 2019.

Here's Jim's standard interpretation for this transit:

PLUTO aspecting Natal MOON
Powerful emotional changes are occurring in you. Primarily this marks a psychological purgation, rousing then cleansing long-stored emotional tensions. Though possibly uncomfortable at the time, perhaps inclining you to a more compulsive, reactive way of being, the result is usually a refreshing sense of liberty and new control over one's life. Freedom, in fact, is something very important to you now, showing in rebellion or an urge to "get away from it all." Relationships and domestic circumstances may go through major changes. Remember, though, that these only reflect your inner turmoil and priority shifts. An excellent time for psychotherapy or any other conscious delving into your psychological roots.
IN BRIEF: Major emotional changes. Shifts in close relationships and domestic conditions. Rebellion, need to break from others’ control. Separation or aloofness. Inner (psychological) transformation.

[spirit175]

Hi Danica
Thanks for the reply....yup there were emotional ups and downs...and he wanted to be left alone...and remained quite for long periods.

Kind Regards
Spirit