My birthchart?

[semikolon]

Hello guys, im new to this forum. I've recently developed quite the obsession with astrology (after a mental breakdown last year, I have found astrology to give a certain meaning to my life and relationships)
And would like to ask what you have to say about my birthtime : 06.03.1993, 7.10 am., Brandenburg an der Havel, Germany.
Also if this is an okey place to ask, I would like to find out what the stars say abt. my new relationship with:
09.01.1987, Notodden, Norway (birth time unknown).

Thank you in advance for answers

[TheScales_BothWays]

Hey Semikolon, welcome to Solunars! Hope you'll have a great time learning and exploring Sidereal astrology with us.

06.03.1993
09.01.1987

Did you mean 6th March or 3rd June? 9th January or 1st September?
I would assume the former for both, as you're from Europe, but most forum members here are American so it helps to write full dates here.

[Jim Eshelman]

It appears you meant your birth data to read:
June 3, 1993, 7:10 AM (which is CEDT), Brandenburg an der Havel, Germany

Is this correct? And is Brandenburg an der Havel the same town I find listed simply as Brandenburg?

And is the other person's birth date September 1, 1987?

I won't jump in until we know we have the data right.

[semikolon]

Hello again, sorry for my unclear way of putting things i meant march 6th 1993 for me (7.10am), brandenburg, germany. And 9th of january 1987, notodden, norway for him.

[Jim Eshelman]

i meant march 6th 1993 for me (7.10am), brandenburg, germany. And 9th of january 1987, notodden, norway for him.

These notes on your Sidereal Natal Horoscope are provided for your reference and study. They are not a full interpretation of your birth chart; rather, they are building blocks from which a full interpretation can be built.

Each factor listed below contributes to your character. These paragraphs commonly repeat or contradict each other. (We all have contradictions.) Though it does not take an astrologer to fuse these factors into a balanced picture of you and your life, it does require knowledge of human behavior and the ways that people support and sabotage themselves. Knowing yourself is a life-long undertaking. I encourage you to read through these notes, feeling your way through the interweaving ideas and reflecting on what you know of yourself.

The paragraphs are brief. I have sought to pack in everything essential, to use a few words to imply much more. Not every phrase will apply, of course. Some will be more important than others; but the gist of each section should clearly reflect truth about you. When you have spent time with this and have new questions, consult your astrologer to discuss them.

Character is destiny. Who you are determines the life that is yours to unfold. “Know thyself” is the key.

ANGULAR PLANETS
Angular Venus (Asc 0°59')
Charming, attractive, popular. Friendly, amiable, gracious. Kind, considerate, benevolent. Flirtatious, affectionate (sexually more receptive than aggressive). Loving, caretaking, mothering. Drawn to beauty, pleasure, peace, tranquility (not pain, violence, turbulence); averse to cruelty & harm. Needs to experience pleasure & beauty; requires harmony & ease (reduced stress & friction). Stubborn & fierce toward injustice (personal or social).

Venus square Uranus (1°37')
Pleasure drives are free of social convention or taboo, allowing enjoyment from a wide variety of social and sexual experiences. Approaches friendship, love, sex, and other pleasure on their own terms, with a deep instinct for flexibility and freedom from artificial constraint. Socially popular, friendly, engaging, and well-liked, in response to a lightly flirtatious, genial, roguish style. (Underlying innocence and vulnerability are often masked by their social “character.”) Often requires distance from intimacy or depersonalizes affection, which can strain conventional pairings. Usually optimistic for society’s future with a deep instinct toward a less Puritanical, more open social fabric.

Venus square Neptune (1°02')
Idealistic, future-looking, longs to be enchanted. Wants things perfect. Can become jaded, disillusioned, and cynical from repeated hurtful betrayals. Emotions run strong. Most sees beauty in people and things, thus has blind spots (especially in romance). Trusting, naturally confident of others’ goodness (poor discrimination in selecting friends). Good-hearted, caretakes others, devoted friends, romantic, humanitarian. Natural people-readers (when not personally involved), natural psychologists.

Venus opposite Jupiter (6°48')
Warm, friendly, giving, hospitable, gracious. Needs to be liked, desires positive attention & appreciation (usually gets it). At home in comfort. Unusual luck opens doors. Inclined to extravagance, possible “spoiled brat.”

Angular Sun (Asc 2°58')
Warm, friendly, generous, shining their light on the world (often in a paternal, possibly controlling, sense). Vital, assertive, confident (or acts it). Aware they have purpose (goal, destiny) they must seek, find, and actualize. At best: Is in charge of self & does well leading others (can be bossy, demanding, entitled). Needs centricity (attracts satellites; may expect others’ world to revolve around them). Drawn to proud, useful institutions. Instinct for immortality.

Sun conjunct Mercury (5°37')
Resourceful, knack for organization, likely will do well in business, effectively self-expressive. One’s ideas are (unconsciously?) equated with the ego, so altering an opinion may feel like compromising oneself. Intellectual pride, stubbornness. Strong need to identify oneself with rationality, to affirm one’s sanity and reasonableness.

SUN
Sun in Aquarius
Scientific, analytic, inventive, pragmatic, non-dogmatic. Broad interests. Unconventional, provocative, controversial. Ignores race, class, rank. Truthful, altruistic, helping. Understands people. Solitude, alienation, undemonstrative. Haughty, unapologetic, but rarely pretentious. May not understand time.

MOON
Moon in Cancer
Strongly driven by feelings (close to surface, comfortably expressed; sometimes overwhelm). When feeling safe: tender, gentle, humane, openly sensitive; otherwise moody, cocky arrogance. Expressive actor, yet treasures privacy. Magnetic, draws (requires) affection & appreciation, warm. Generous, hospitable. Sympathetic listening; trusted. Exudes optimism, confidence. Better serving than leading. Thrives within imagination & fantasy.

Moon sextile Jupiter (2°21')
Desires success. Drawn to quality. Good-humored, entertaining, kind, generous (natural host). Social elitism (may feign aristocracy). Strong beliefs (religious or patriotic intensity, morality, judgment). Often difficulty applying persistent effort.

Moon trine Venus (4°27')
Attractive, charming, affectionate, sexual charisma, sensual. Passive-dependent, moody, can be blindsided by strong feelings, often preoccupied with whether they are liked.

MARS
Mars in Gemini
Bright, inquiring; forthright, decisive (strong opinions). Argumentative (debate, stirs conversation; eloquent?). Pragmatic (not idealistic). Methodical. Scientific mind hones facts, can commit mind to research (scientists). Gains strength from being heard; otherwise over-compensates. (May “know better than anyone else,” need to be right.) Substance abuse.

Mars square Jupiter (2°00')
Exalts strength, competition, and conquest with a zest for living. Common for successful competitive athletes; in most others, it shows vitality and enthusiasm for bringing an ever-improving “personal best.” Confidence in their own strength adds impermanence to any defeats. Morally if not physically courageous. Enterprising, resourceful. Sexually ardent, lusty, eager, popular, on the hunt. “Money to burn” (generous or extravagant; rarely holds onto cash for long; seems confident in the stream of resources). Aggressive in their beliefs, evangelical in their lives (irrepressible enthusiasts, missionaries, barnstormers of doctrine or other interests).

Mars octile Pluto (0°13')
Normally congenial, mannered, even docile; yet enormous hidden explosive force (disciplined & available; untapped; or toxic & brutal). This must be expressed somehow (suppressing it attracts violence or assaults health). Resists control or coercion, defies arbitrary restrictions. Sexual energies explosive or rerouted into work (beware burn-out). In a balanced life: distinctive creativity, alive with a quiet, intense energy.

Mars octile Saturn (1°52')
Struggle marks these lives (from prejudice or early hardship). Hardened, tough survivors, self-sufficient, seeking control. Some accept the hardship and focus on “getting through”; some act meek, unthreatening; others overcompensate as bullies (feelings of weakness, shame, inadequacy). Conflicts with authority. Serious, reserved, cautious about enthusiasms.

MERCURY
Mercury in Aquarius
Unconventional clever mind unfettered by formality & standard practice. Idealist, futurist, needs intellectual freedom. Objective, less personal thinking. Doesn’t mince words (words come easily). Varied interests (well-rounded breadth or dissipation). Musical.

Mercury sextile Uranus (0°11')
Independent thinker. Curious & investigative. Mind unfettered by formality solves problems & integrates data more intuitively. Rejects linearity; lacks rigor. Diverse interests, often unusual. Speech is engaging, usually has something interesting to say. Challenges convention or authority, speaks despite consequences (stubborn, pedantic). Gently rebellious, socially odd.

Mercury sextile Neptune (0°46')
Highly responsive to environment, sensitive to subtle impressions. Magnifies trivialities (perfectionist). Loves puzzle- or problem-solving. Very curious about the unknown (occultism). Dreamer, storyteller, can enthuse and persuade others.

VENUS
Venus in Pisces
Fantasy relationships. Tender, vulnerable, exploring mystery of another. Wants “true friend” who won’t betray. Charmers, weave endearing image (tend to get their way). Seducible, easily enticed, suggestible. Fond of strong erotic imagery & sensory stimuli. Passions easily aroused, torrential. Mystic; God connection. Receptive to beauty; artistic interests. Can be unreasoning, led by instinct (a few are plain crazy).

OUTER PLANETS
Saturn square Pluto (1°39')
“Runs their own show,” resists outside control. Even as an employee, wants autonomy. Lone wolf: solitary path comes naturally; partnership requires choice & effort. Rejects arbitrary expectations. Survivors: Great strength, self-reliance, & persistence in the face of hardship (stubborn, entrenched; pays the necessary price). Conscientious. Tough as nails (especially the women) but can become hard, cut-off, alienated. By taking everything on themselves, can feel they carry the world's weight. (Obsessive-compulsive.)

Uranus conjunct Neptune (0°35')
Wanderlust, curious explorer, drawn to peer or push past horizons. Colliding realities & social revision impact life. Rules haven’t been discovered for one’s life (maps not yet drawn, “nobody knows what my life is like”). Mythic, ritualistic sense of one’s position in the universal scheme (need to discern one’s role). Knows that life & reality are more mystical & inscrutable (or just plain weird!) than anyone ever said. High-strung, sensitive, easily agitated.

[Jim Eshelman]

Here is a copy of your horoscope. Notice please that Venus (calculated very carefully above) is much closer to Ascendant than it looks in this chart.

[Jim Eshelman]

Also if this is an okey place to ask, I would like to find out what the stars say abt. my new relationship with: 09.01.1987, Notodden, Norway (birth time unknown).

We are limited in what we can say without a birthtime, but there are some things we can discern. Here are the most important sign placements and a few key aspects:

Moon in Aries
Autonomous, independent, self-sufficient, competitive. Sentiment yields to practicality; cautious with intimacy. Sexually bold, passionate, pragmatic. Assertive (pushy), efficient, decisive, contrary, opinionated (adamant certainty). Respected, easily takes charge, leads. Business instincts, opportunistic.

Sun in Sagittarius
Social elitism, aristocracy. Excellence, quality. Higher & higher, ambition, travel. Judges self & others, may fail own standards. Right-wrong, reward-punishment, belief- & values-driven. Respects continuity of culture & social rituals. Preserves status quo, heritage, myth when possible. Loyal to tribe. Complacent affection.

Sun conjunct Mercury
Resourceful, knack for organization, likely will do well in the business world, effectively self-expressive. One’s ideas are (unconsciously?) equated with the ego, so altering an opinion may feel like compromising oneself. Intellectual pride, stubbornness. Strong need to identify oneself with rationality, to affirm one’s sanity and reasonableness.

Sun, Mercury, & maybe Moon sextile Jupiter
This adds a positive cast to the character, some of the traits of which are: Generous, kind, warm, amiable, tolerant; needs acceptance & friendship. General dislike of problems: Has difficulty persevering against real adversity. Prodigal, loves leisure, overly reliant on luck. Philosophical or religious mind.

Mars in Pisces
Sensitive, imaginative, fervent; weaves vivid drama, vibrant fantasy. Brooding, moody, surging into temptation, pursing depths & heights. Creative reality-weaving, not scientific reality-discovering. Expect reality to match their wants (impatient with frustrated gratification). Passive-aggressive, manipulative. Looks at things which most people leave hidden (death, abnormal sexuality, occultism, mysteries of life & the psyche).

Venus trine Mars
Passion (in all senses), feels powerfully about things, seeks vivid experiences. Sexual passions mature early, continue late, rarely encumbered by too many conditions. Fun-loving, loves romance: interesting, likable, sociable horny people.

Looking at your chart and what we know of his chart together, the main link between your luminary signs is that your Moon signs are square, and the Moons themselves might be square. This gives a certain sympatico, an ability to more easily feel each other (but not necessarily a liking for the same kind of environment or home space).

His Mars and Jupiter straddle your Ascendant with his Mars in the same sign as your Venus. This is a generally lusty, fun-pursuing, sexy good time. His Jupiter simultaneously conjoins your Mercury and Sun, so he has great respect for you, generosity, holds you i esteem; and it may indicate compatibility (the ability to flourish together) in business.

His Sun conjoins your Uranus-Neptune and squares your Venus. The Sun-Venus makes for friendship and mentorship more than romance; but your Uranus-Neptune on his Sun basically means that you are something cray-freaky-unusual to him, exposing him to ideas, thoughts, worlds he wouldn't dive into otherwise.

His Saturn squares your Sun. This is a complex aspect - I could write solidly positive or solidly negative portents about it. For example, it's present in enduring relationships. OTOH it's not necessarily present in the kindest or closest relationships. This could reinforce the prior sense that he has a mentor role to you somehow. At worst, he would find himself over time shutting you down; at best, he disciplines and refines you. You definitely have a potential to draw out the buried shadow elements from each other.