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James Condor
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Friend TA

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TA, born April 21 1952, Hartford Kentucky, at 7:25a
Now lives in Valparaiso Indiana
I need help with his chart analysis
Also, a synastry between he and I
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Re: Friend TA

Post by SteveS »

Hi James,
A few quick observations:

1: t. Mars will soon conjunct both Pieces Moon's (is their an argument/dispute happening?)
2: Your Saturn partile conjunct TA's Mars
3: TA's Uranus 180 your MC (1,27)
4: Your Uranus conjunct TA's DSC (2,33)

***Also very important for your life: You have a major “Life Development” occurring now with your Natal Solar Arc Uranus exact conjunct your Natal Sun (exact June 25). This is a once in lifetime Solar Arc hit. A possible life tone for this combo is:
Intensified feeling of ego-aggrandizement; excited state in relationship;
possible break up.
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Re: Friend TA

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A thumbnail assessment...

TA is an Aries-Pisces with Pluto closely angular and a strong Mercury-Saturn-Uranus T-square. I would find this to be a difficult, tedious, cantankerous combination who would be entirely easy to get along with as long as you always let him win the argument, neve challenge his fantasy view of the world, and never try to pin him down that he is "this way or that way." His mind is interesting, challenging, commands data well, often disagreeable.

He has no major planet transits to his chart partile right now, though he's in a stage of life where Saturn is squaring his Sun - demands on him feel heavier and he is adjusting to these demands, etc. As Steve mentioned, Mars will be coming across both of your Moons (square your Mercury-Jupiter-Neptune at about the same time) over the next several days.

Chart comparison is complex. He has several planets very close to your angles (Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune close; Sun, Venus, and Jupiter wider but still foreground). There is a basic sympatico / sense of connection with your Moons conjunct, and these angular planets seem to be "challenging, hard to find a matching reality" first, but the Sun-Venus-Jupiter marks of friendship right behind it. (Do I correctly interpret in the tone of your inquiry that you're confused because you expect this relationship to be easier than it is?) I think he feels most natural (based on his character and his Sun near your Ascendant) if, in some sense, you make clear he is "your hero." However, his Jupiter exactly opposite your Mars suggests that he exalts your masculinity in some sense, encourages you in competition. (The farther I go, the more it seems that the two of you are two facing mirrors having infinite reflections of yourselves and each other that become inextricably confused.)

His Sun opposes your Mars-Pluto, so you're inclined to be the combative one as well and, intentionally or unintentionally, your presence tends to try to change him, which he may find uncomfortable.

Your Venus-Uranus is on his Descendant, Uranus closest. In this sense (and your Jupiter closely square his Moon), he gets the better end of the deal and experiences you as interesting, relieving the boredom in his life. You, however, are likely more confused, wondering WTF is going on - with his Neptune closely square your Sun.

Your Saturn exactly conjoins his Mars. His Jupiter exactly opposes your Mars. Though I think he's a difficult person, with regard to these Mars interchanges he is kinder to and more supportive of you than you are of him. You may find a clue in the fact that you both have Mars in Libra: Read that interpretation to see areas in which you are similar (though Mars in Libra will look different on a Sagittarian than on an Arietian).
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Re: Friend TA

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Thanks guys for the good info.

He and I aren’t close friends and we don’t know each other well. We have known each other for at least 5 years. We run into one another on the street or at the corner bar. I’m pretty sure I thought he was a Cancer when first meeting. I’m pretty sure I initiated meeting him.

I find him interesting being older and at the bar. He doesn’t drink much I found out. I was wondering how he could hang out at a bar at his age and not pass out or stumble.

He has long grey hair, mostly pony tailed. Glasses. Thin, 6’. He dresses like a real modern hippie. He dresses nice. A business owner for years.

When I found out he is a hair stylist, it threw me off. I assumed he might be homosexual. Which, I don’t care. Be you.
He seems to truly care about others and knows allot of people. I don’t know if he has many friends but he knows many people and they know him... to an extent

He is divorced with all girls, at least 2 maybe 3. He told me at the bar he was asexual most his life. He loves his ex wife and kids and always has.
He has had sex with men but doesn’t define himself as gay. He says,What is gay? What is straight? And so on.
His life has changed significantly in the last 5 years or so.
1, his divorce, 2, his sexual curiousness. 3, his past lover died of suicide. He told me when we hung out last that he was seeing a young man and he was in love. I have met and talked some with the young man a couple times.

I’d say my presence challenges him for sure. I pretty much initiate any real conversation and tangible plan. But, he came back with actually wanting to hang out and we did.

I definitely get more information out of him than he gets out of me. I could be wrong? His mind seems to move fast and I can’t tell how much he hears what I’m saying (Could be an age difference thing).

He is odd. But, strangers are at times. He is impatient and doesn’t have deep conversation easily. He is sometimes difficult to talk to. He seems easily offended. He isn’t an open book. Hidden.
I’d say I can easily annoy him and he could easily annoy me. He talks allot I’d say. I’m patient around him about some things and not so on other things. I think we’ve both made ambiguous jokes about each other to each other at the bar. I think he thought I didn’t like him. He asked if I got mad at him about something a long time ago. I was like, uh, no.

We hung out for the first time just the two of us, cruising the town in his Miata convertible. He’s cool. We respect each other. We are both interesting to each other. Not that I want to be close , just like to learn things about people.

I think Jim you’re pretty spot on without having met either of us.
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