Solunars by Aldebaran Sidereal Academy

Jim Eshelman wrote:All the above. Bottom line, it means change in Venus matters. This can be (and often is) new relationships (in or out of the context of existing relationships), freedom needs that lead to all sorts of outcomes (new relationships, rupturing old ones, transgressing old boundaries, need for variety expressed, etc.). It demands things fresh.

It's easiest to think of it as a Uranus-toned Venus, but remember this aspect also means a well-aspected Uranus.

There is a subtler side to Venus-Uranus, hard to discuss. I think this hard-to-discuss side comes from society's tendency to regard Venus-Uranus as taboo, verboten, not to be talked about much. The point is this: Other than the deepest existential seed of identity at the very heart of our psyches, nothing is deeper to us (nothing closer to that inner truth-of-self) than our authentic desires. (This is the truth Freud almost articulated correctly and just barely missed, perhaps because he regarded the id as a problem.) Venus-Uranus periods are stretches when we are drawn closer to what we truly, deeply, authentically desire, with less and less chance that we'll be able to ignore it and remain sane. (See Garth Allen's notes in the Venus-Uranus natal aspect section for something similar to that.)

In terms of the relationship questions you asked, a main point is that you need something new and fresh in Venus matters. This could be one or more new relationships, or one or more additional relationships... but another option is to renew and reinvent an existing relationship. I think it close to impossible to get through a major Venus-Uranus period and find that a main relationship you had at the beginning still exists as what it was before.