Solunars by Aldebaran Sidereal Academy

I will keep adding to this topic according to the people with whom I share close relationships with. Its open for discussion and advice. Primarily, I believe that there is a pattern or at the very least some aspect which defines majority of my relationships with other people.

Also forum members can look up their co-aspects with me out of curiosity and discussion. It might be interesting. Just to further this topic.

As for the people who are close to me, I might not know their birth times but I will do my best to get it.
Also for reference place, lets just keep my birth place for this not my current residence.

Person 1 (female)
Date: June 2, 1995
Time: 12:30 pm
Birthplace: Narayanganj, Dhaka, Bangladesh
Relationship: Close friend

Person 2 (female)
Date: April 2, 1998
Time: unknown (For now)
Birthplace: Narayanganj, Dhaka, Bangladesh
Relationship: Close friend

Will keep adding more!!!

Adding your birth data to make the thread easier:

Name on forum: Hakim
Birth date: September 06, 1993
Birth time: 11:15 PM
Birth place: Dubai, UAE

She is a Taurus-Gemini (we've seen this chart recently, I remember it well), the luminary constellations having no particular connection to your own except you are both Hub Suns.

The first thing to jump out is that her partile Sun-Jupiter opposition is right across your horizon, with her Mercury and Mars also near your angles. You've already told us she has been a great help to you, and this seems to come from great kindness and generosity on her part. She would do more or less anything she could for you.

These more widely square your Sun, which says much the same - add mutual respect, and, in this case, it is probably mutual understanding. (Sun-Sun is either mutual recognition of the other as someone similar, or ego-conflict from "taking up the same space in the universe where my ego belongs - the positive aspects suggest the former here).

Her Venus more widely conjoins your Moon - she loves you. Her Saturn opposes your Mercury so, at best, she helps structure your thinking, but you tend to feel she isn't listening to you. (This aspect says she doesn't respect what you have to say or how you think, but the Jupiter aspects says she has great respect for you personally. The outcome is in some balance between those two superficially disagreeing statements.)

Your Mercury conjoins her Ascendant as well, but it opposes her setting Saturn. In general, it looks like communication and ideas flow freely back and forth, except for whatever conditions the Mercury-Saturn interchange indicates. Your angles are sufficiently similar that some of the same aspects are highlighted, e.g., your Sun near her Ascendant (a great mark of compatibility, especially you with you somehow playing "her hero" or male ideal), tied into her Sun-Jupiter.

A surprise is that several of the strong, distinctive factors in your chart do not touch her chart closely, especially your Mars-Jupiter square Uranus-Neptune.

We are at some disadvantage because we have no birth time for her. The angles would be especially helpful for perspective and emphasis because, at a glance, we see this is a much more challenging relationship.

Her luminaries are in Pisces-Taurus (her Moon could be in Gemini, though, so I won't rely on that Taurus Moon).

Her Venus is conjunct your Midheaven and Saturn. This gives potentially conflicting messages, of which the simplest is that she loves you very strongly but there are problems, divisiveness. This comes form two directions. One, you are at least ambivalent about her and, quite likely reject or push back against her affections. (It may be way more complicated than I'm stating, but that would be the basic picture.) Second, her Venus and Pluto are on your angles, so there is something push-pull, approach-avoid, that perhaps draws very intense emotional reactions from her. You stir these approach-avoid / emotionally intensive things in her in a way that is not normal to her from her birth chart alone. These are aspects of frustrated love, or her sacrificing herself out of devotion to you, for example.

Her Mars-Saturn conjunction (only 3' wide at noon) doesn't touch your chart, though (since the last chart is in my mind) it squares Moon of Person #1. If they know each other, the relationship is probably one of hatred and cruelty. Person #2 has Mercury square your Uranus-Neptune, so communication is strange between you and not nearly of the quality you have with #1.

Her Jupiter is also opposite your Sun, so her basic orientation is to be positive to you, generous to you - and there is mutual respect.

Your Mars-Jupiter partile conjunction widely opposes her Sun. We might weave that into the mix, but I'm inclined not to complicate the description when there are so many other strong factors. It does make for a two-way Sun-Jupiter, and the Sun-Mars would add its own character.

Despite the two-way Sun-Jupiter, if you are thinking of going into business with this person, I think the charts advise against it.

That is very enlightening. I am going to deep breath. Okay here goes.

Person 1
Communication is what you said. She helps structure my thinking. She would probably say,"It does not make sense, give me the short version?" or "Just give me the finer points". Honestly, conversations with her resulted in quite a bit of mental discipline. I loved it.

As for affection, I know she cares about me a lot, she shows it and expresses it. Its nice. Also a lot of mutual respect, we agree to disagree on issues where we know that sometimes different people have different views.

Also as you mentioned, some of my distinctive chart factors don't touch her chart closely at all. I wonder how this plays out.

I still remember as I was reflecting about our friendship, I likened her to a sun to the darkness I am experiencing. Nothing too depressive. just being poetic here. Although, the symbolism fits. Very interesting.

Person 2
She confessed to me but I had to reject her. Fitting symbolism with the venus-saturn exchange. During my most reflective moments I wondered quite often, she must have really cared and yet how odd it is that I was quite indifferent.

She admitted to me that sometimes I drive her crazy or more like I draw out intense reactions out of her and then she says she did not mean to and apologizes. I can almost see a pattern here. In fact, I might be able to guess which co-aspects I might share.

Still a friend to this day but still it crosses my mind often.

Person 3 (male)
Date: July 14, 1994
Time: unknown (For now)
Birthplace: Ajman, UAE
Relationship: Best Friend (More like a brother!!!)

I knew his birth time. Cannot seem to recall.We still keep in touch though its hard to reach him. Maybe I will ask him next time, though it will take quite a while.