I've been back working pointedly on the project of getting the Sun in Leo interpretations updated. In the course of that, I've discovered something this morning that I'd been trying to put into thoughts (on and off) for a year while I've been delaying tackling the Leo rewrite. This morning, I think I'm close to pinning it down and think I've found something really basic about the triad Leo, Sagittarius, and Aries: It matters
profoundly to all of them how people think about them and (in a way that could easily be mistaken for the
tedium attributed to Tropical Virgo.
There is a huge disconnect between how Leos see Leos and how other people see Leos. Even if both groups agree with the facts, it's enormously important to Leo that you have
the right idea about those facts. - This completes the triad of signs, because one of the oldest practical things known Sagittarians is (as Linda Goodman observed about Tropical Capricorns) if somebody at a party says, "I'm sure you can't guess what sign I am," they're probably a Sag. (And they do want to mythologize their story more than a little.) Then there is the Aries trait cluster of not wanting anybody to be able to pin them down and decisively say they are a
this or a
that - it takes away their freedom to have someone be able to pin them down with a label or category or generalization! (Oh, the Pluto of it all.)
Leos want to control the
narrative of their lives. That trait is so pervasive that it modifies most other basic traits about Leo and - more importantly to me <g> - it places unusual demands on astrologer to say things
just right because, by golly, Leo is willing to take as many hours as necessary to
make you understand where they're coming from so that you have the
right idea and
say it right.
This is why I've spent most of a year avoiding rewriting Leo.
Anyway, here are some notes I wrote on it earlier this morning as I was drawing this out of myself. It began as I was rewriting the bullet point about Leos and bragging. Let me clear that Leos aren't generally braggarts. In particularly, they almost never brag about their accomplishments. However (I noted), they need other people to understand what things matter most to them (what is most important in their lives) as a means of
knowing who they are. I thought, yeah, that's really the goal, to have people correctly "know who they are," and they will hold forth hours at a time if necessary (I exaggerate only a little) until you no longer care
what they do or how they act, but so you especially know
why they do what they do.
Then I wrote (a version of) the following note (which will probably be edited before anyone sees it on the other page:
There's a broader trait I may not leave here unless I find exactly the right way to say it: One has to be careful what words one uses to describe Leos. (Only Aries & Sagittarius approach this level of "it matters very much to them how people think of them.") For example, it's not that they require other people be thinking about them all the time (they don't), but if people are thinking about them, they want to control what thoughts people are thinking. More abstractly [it's so easy to talk in abstractions about Leo, and many of them hate that!) I'd say they want to control their own myth or legend, i.e., they want to control the narrative about themselves. Yet, I hasten to add, most would rapidly deny that they have a myth or legend ("I don't want people thinking I'm that kind of Leo!"). In fact, there is quite a lot of, "Well, those facts about me may be true, but please don't think I want it that way, e.g., people naturally orbiting me all the time and and all."
Surely I will stir a new kind of roaring hornet's nest with this, but I'm sure I'm right. This behavior underlies nearly everything that is most so about Leo. (Of course, what matters isn't
what they're like as long as I have the right idea about
why things turn out that way... right? <vbg>