Is this due to Pluto?

[Soft Alpaca]

I've always felt too emotional, now I hide my emotions because they are too much for people. I'm used to being abandoned and left in the dust, however now someone really seems to like me, and I want to like them too, however it seems that I'm so used to being lonely and alone I don't know how to have a two way romantic intimate relationship, I can please the other person, however I can't say that I have pleasure myself. I feel the energy of Scorpio in this relationship as we both have elevated Scorpio energy in our charts, and both need space to breath. My Pluto moon feels inhibiting at the moment, what should I do?

[Jim Eshelman]

Uranus is transiting across your IC. In fact, today (and for a couple of days), Venus and Uranus are conjoined transiting your IC. Overall, there is a great opening up, need for freedom, and opportunity to change fundamental things during this stage of your life, and for a few days this is especially centered on relationships.

Here is a generic interpretation of the Uranus transit that marks much of your life-path for 2018:

Inner restlessness prompts you to make major shifts in your lifestyle. Changes in your physical environment, particularly home and domestic situation, are common with this transit. Even a total geographic relocation is possible. However these outer, environmental "moves" are reflections of the much more important shifts occurring within you. This is a time of self-exploration and important psychological changes. It may seem that if you do not willingly make shifts in point-of-view, life keeps nudging you toward them. Some possible events are remodeling the home, sudden changes regarding property and domestic patterns, turning points in relationships with parents, and the need to clean up and refresh intimate relationships with those you live with. Sometimes this means disruption and separation. The key, though, is self-discovery and the freedom that comes from devotion to your own personal truths.

IN BRIEF: Inner restlessness prompts lifestyle shifts. Changes in home and domestic matters (maybe a move). Important shifts occur inside you. Self-discovery. Possible disruption, separation. A need to refresh close, family relationships.

Oh, to make it even stronger, your progressed Moon is now 1° Aries, so Uranus is conjoining that, too!

Emotional vitality and popularity are renewed as old emotional and domestic patterns go through major change. New freedom needs rise in you, demanding that narrow attitudes and reactions be discarded. Emotional and relationship issues are clarified. A sexual awakening is likely. Thrill, excitement, and aliveness indicate that you are riding well this wave of awakening; while tension and temperament reflect your resistance to letting go of the past. Others may view your behavior as erratic, as you "try on" new ways of being and acting. Intimate relationships shift as your lifestyle changes. Inquisitive, curious and original, you are captivated by new areas of exploration, and now view life with a freshness rarely before possible for you.
IN BRIEF: Refreshing changes, renewed interest in life. Emotional (sexual) liberation. Lifestyle overhaul. Popularity; maybe a shift in intimate relationships. Inquisitive, curious; new interests.

[Soft Alpaca]

Thanks Jim!

[mikestar13]

Take a closer look at how you describe your feelings. "I want to like them, too." Do you mean you don't quite like them, but wish you did? Perhaps the overall impression the person gives you feels right but you are picking up red flags? OTOH, maybe you are distressing yourself with imaginings? This is subtly different from "I like them, but ..." Maybe thinking on this a bit will give you a better idea of what you want to get from a relationship. BTW, if they are a decent person, pleasing you will be an important part of their own pleasure, so don't fall into the trap of feeling selfish for working to discover and then articulate what you want and need from a relationship--by being happier and healthier in a relationship, you are doing them a favor, too!

[Soft Alpaca]

They care for me and I wish I cared for them but I don't know if I do. It's hard for me to please myself when I'm with others.