I made a new friend when school started.
I work with children in middle school in the library. Students come in mostly to socialize out of studyhall. This new friend of mine is an outcast though, in a class set up for the trouble kids one step away from getting kicked out. This new friend comes into the library with nothing to do and no friends.
All the other kids sit at the tables and "pretend" to work but just gab and get loud and unruley and nasty when I have to ask them to be quiet. They are a problem for me but not this child who sits alone or comes and talks to me. It bothers me that my "superiors" ride and harass this child while never confronting the "popular" kids and holding them accountable for wasting my time and being jerky.
I see it as form of social ostrication and internal bias and prejudice against someone who allready seemingly has the cards against them and Im not going to tolerate it when this child is with me thats for sure.
This person made a point to say that thier birthday was this upcoming monday and I asked if I could look up thier astrology chart to see what this year might have instore to which I got an eager yes please.
Birthtime unknown
9/24/2005
Birthplace: Rochester, Ny
Sun/mercury/jupiter in Virgo
moon in Taurus.
Venus/mars opposition
Moon/pluto opposition
Neptune/saturn opposition
There seems like there is just so much going on in this chart that I cant see what the main aspects and influences are.
Our synastry chart has a nice venus/venus trine and I definately feel a warmth and comfortablness even though this child has a history of not getting along with adults and authority.
I get sad hearing other adults say "dont waste your time" "lost cause" " nothing but trouble" etc etc ad nausium.
I see a lot of great potential, intelligence and caring in this young soul and wish I could find a book or something for them to latch onto and draw strenght and hope for the future. I know we have some great Virgos here and was hoping for some thoughts. What would you say to a youngster with a chart like this? What would you recommend for books or things to challenge/enhance.
Its only 8th grade and graduation is long long way away and I dont like how everyone is counting the days till the child gets passed on to alterative schools/jail/rehab......
D. Matlock
Re: D. Matlock
it became apparent to me this past week that this little man is in love with my daughter who is almost 3 years his senior. and I think she likes him too.
D and I had a very intimate conversation last week, where out of the blue he confided in me that he does not like girls his age but they wont leave him alone and he doesnt want to to be mean. and i have heard and seen exactly that. I told him to not be mean to these girlds his age. I told him to tell them that he is dating my daughter, who they all met when I had her brought to school with me for getting into a fight. they will never know and my daughter wont care.
he friend requested her straight away on facebook and proceeded to show me pictures of his family and specifically one of him holding a baby.
for being the handfully that he seems to be, I think that they would really enjoy each other as thier venus's are conjunct. she told me straight away that he had hit her up, which she never does......she has like 1000 followers and friends who I dont know.
I also told him to focus on his own personal goals and not to worry about kids his age and people not understanding his complex nature.
we spent half an hour happily cutting paper inhalf for scrap paper, together, so that we didnt have to deal with the chaos and dramas of middle school. lol.
D and I had a very intimate conversation last week, where out of the blue he confided in me that he does not like girls his age but they wont leave him alone and he doesnt want to to be mean. and i have heard and seen exactly that. I told him to not be mean to these girlds his age. I told him to tell them that he is dating my daughter, who they all met when I had her brought to school with me for getting into a fight. they will never know and my daughter wont care.
he friend requested her straight away on facebook and proceeded to show me pictures of his family and specifically one of him holding a baby.
for being the handfully that he seems to be, I think that they would really enjoy each other as thier venus's are conjunct. she told me straight away that he had hit her up, which she never does......she has like 1000 followers and friends who I dont know.
I also told him to focus on his own personal goals and not to worry about kids his age and people not understanding his complex nature.
we spent half an hour happily cutting paper inhalf for scrap paper, together, so that we didnt have to deal with the chaos and dramas of middle school. lol.