Solunars by Aldebaran Sidereal Academy

Well, with the news about my mother's cancer, I haven't really been feeling well. I've looked over her SSRs until about 2025, and from now until 2024, they all have Neptune either closely in the foreground or on a major auxiliary angle, which indicates a progressive whithering. In 2025, she has a Jupiter square Saturn, Venus, and Neptune on the angles, and I am very fearful of that. From everything I've read, it indicates a release from prolonged illness. I'm 35, and I don't think I can really take the death of my mother. The type of cancer she has is pretty aggressive, and I don't know how to fix this situation. I know I have a boyfriend, but I don't really feel like I have anyone.
Her birthday is 1/30/57, 4:42pm, Alice, Texas.

Im sorry to hear of your mother's illness. Cancer sucks. I lost my mom and her sister to aggressive cancer in 1996. In a way Im glad I didnt know how to read charts correctly back then as I was able to just be in the moment and make the best of the time we had.
Youre not alone.

My mother was first diagnosed when I was still in my 20s, and died when I was just into my 30s. Veronica's right. You're not alone.

But. I looked at your mother's Solars through 2024 too. Even the one four years from now, while not great, doesn't look like doom. Till then, this year's isn't great but after that, they're not that bad.

Venus, yes your mother has cancer, but once she gets through whatever treatment she's going to have this year, YOU need to move on with YOUR life. You can't stand around putting your life on hold till the sky falls in or the other shoe drops or whatever metaphor you want to use.

Get yourself settled into a career, then go for a baby if you want one. Your mother would love a grandchild, and she would love to see you financially ok.

Boyfriends... your ex is your ex for a reason. Remember that.

Thank you all so much for your kind advice. I did read everything as you posted, I've just been going through a lot and very busy with school. Good news first, my mother made it through surgery nicely, and thankfully, the severity of her cancer was only categorized as 1A. I cared for her at home, and my boyfriend provided anything she needed.

Great news about your mother! Glad things seem to be going better for you.

That is great news! Hope things keep getting better and better