Pondering language about Rims
Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2022 5:24 pm
I've been stuck a couple of days pondering language to use about Rims.
It's not that hard to identify what they're like. Rather, it's hard to do it in language that I think they also will find acceptable and not insulting.
The single most useful metaphor in the Hub vs. Rim extreme is that Hubs connect to the center, which means the depths, while Rim connect to the circumference which means the surface. Both of these are valuable. However, while our society (if anything) values Rims most of all, our society also demeans the idea of "surface" in language. The word superficial should mean nothing more than that it attends most to the outer face of things, but has an implication that nearly means "worthless."
It's quite easy to describe most Hubs as deep and most Rims as shallow in the SPECIFIC sense of attending outer things. One nonjudgmental example (since there are two or more respected theories on the matter) is that most Rims (Jung being a stunning exception) view who someone is by how they act - behavior (what's on the "outside") being used to assess identity. Most Hubs, however, view who someone is by something deeper something at the center that either does or does expose itself on the surface.
BTW, I've been forced to revise my view (inherited from Fagan) that Rims are most often in motion. They really aren't. Some of them (about half) even seem quite lazy. But they set OTHERS in motion. They are much more likely to motivate, empower, dispatch, or drive others than to be active themselves, though they keep a strong hand on the helm. Consider that they are most often executives and managers, whose job is more to ensure others are working than to do the same work themselves. For a gruesome but accurate example, think of Manson who actually didn't do any murdering himself but, rather, dispatched others to do it. It does seem that Rims (most obvious in double Rims) only feel their world is right when those around them are stirred into motion or, if need be, into commotion.
So my problem isn't really seeing them. It more like I haven't a clue about what they really value or how to talk about it. I'm a Spoke-Hub, which is another way of saying I'm an un-Rim.
I would find this much better if I could define exactly what - in the context of Rims - I mean by THE SURFACE. For example, it's not the same as saying what is evident to the senses. This function of sensation (one of the Jungian types) is something quite different. Similarly, I have to be careful not to wander into extraversion-introversion distinctions in the sense of attention and valuation turned outward more than inward. That, too, is quite a different thing.
I've toyed with defining in my head "the surface" as that space wherein there is more movement, more shifting or change. I have to be careful because I do tend to view the transient judgmentally, and (for example) see much of the spiritual path as the journey from attention on and valuing the transient to attention on and valuing the eternal (or that which has characteristics of the eternal). To me, the transient is fictional while the enduring is true. This perspective would seep through my words until I get clear on what's going on.
It's not that hard to identify what they're like. Rather, it's hard to do it in language that I think they also will find acceptable and not insulting.
The single most useful metaphor in the Hub vs. Rim extreme is that Hubs connect to the center, which means the depths, while Rim connect to the circumference which means the surface. Both of these are valuable. However, while our society (if anything) values Rims most of all, our society also demeans the idea of "surface" in language. The word superficial should mean nothing more than that it attends most to the outer face of things, but has an implication that nearly means "worthless."
It's quite easy to describe most Hubs as deep and most Rims as shallow in the SPECIFIC sense of attending outer things. One nonjudgmental example (since there are two or more respected theories on the matter) is that most Rims (Jung being a stunning exception) view who someone is by how they act - behavior (what's on the "outside") being used to assess identity. Most Hubs, however, view who someone is by something deeper something at the center that either does or does expose itself on the surface.
BTW, I've been forced to revise my view (inherited from Fagan) that Rims are most often in motion. They really aren't. Some of them (about half) even seem quite lazy. But they set OTHERS in motion. They are much more likely to motivate, empower, dispatch, or drive others than to be active themselves, though they keep a strong hand on the helm. Consider that they are most often executives and managers, whose job is more to ensure others are working than to do the same work themselves. For a gruesome but accurate example, think of Manson who actually didn't do any murdering himself but, rather, dispatched others to do it. It does seem that Rims (most obvious in double Rims) only feel their world is right when those around them are stirred into motion or, if need be, into commotion.
So my problem isn't really seeing them. It more like I haven't a clue about what they really value or how to talk about it. I'm a Spoke-Hub, which is another way of saying I'm an un-Rim.
I would find this much better if I could define exactly what - in the context of Rims - I mean by THE SURFACE. For example, it's not the same as saying what is evident to the senses. This function of sensation (one of the Jungian types) is something quite different. Similarly, I have to be careful not to wander into extraversion-introversion distinctions in the sense of attention and valuation turned outward more than inward. That, too, is quite a different thing.
I've toyed with defining in my head "the surface" as that space wherein there is more movement, more shifting or change. I have to be careful because I do tend to view the transient judgmentally, and (for example) see much of the spiritual path as the journey from attention on and valuing the transient to attention on and valuing the eternal (or that which has characteristics of the eternal). To me, the transient is fictional while the enduring is true. This perspective would seep through my words until I get clear on what's going on.