As Steve pointed out, your Venus is closely aspecting Neptune and Jupiter. There is a powerful fantasy element in your love nature. You want things perfect! You want the
unobtainable love!! You really, really want "too good to be true"!!!
This isn't silly, nor does it mean you won't get it. - But sometimes it takes a little longer to find the perfect "unobtainable love." - Venus-Jupiter is a good sign for eventual success. I suspect it's going to come down to timing.
My wife, by the way, has the same two aspects I'm talking about. Her Venus-Neptune is much stronger than yours and her Moon-Pluto is just as strong. She's a Venus-ruled Taurus the way you're a Venus-ruled Libra. While having various relationships all of her life (of varying degrees of satisfaction), we met when she was about your age and started our relationship a few years later - and it's been fantastic for both of us! (At least, that's what
she says, and I choose to believe her
.) It seems that one can indeed find "too good to be true" and something that feels like the once-in-a-lifetime relationship.
Your Moon-Pluto 0°01' is the competing need. You can read about Moon-Pluto here:
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It shows needs for much personal independence and the ability to carve out your own life pattern, "march to your own drummer," and especially resist others' authority. Even in those of you who are also drawn strongly to closeness and connection, too much closeness for too long throws a circuit breaker in you and you need some sort of interruption. Along with connection, you also need separation - the two have to coexist.
I wonder btw if you had extreme interruption or separation in your early home life. Moon-Pluto aspects this close, especially with Moon in Cancer, often mean things like losing one's mother early in life or similar strong (even dramatic) disruption in the early family. This might help us understand how you relate to separation.
While there is no conflict between need for closeness and need for independence, to be one's own person, and have times or situations of solitude, the two sets of needs
superficially compete with each other. Add to this that the partnership you want is idealistic... and it's not surprising that it has taken you longer to find the person you want to find.
Much about you is "outside of the norm." Though you are gracious and present well to others, I think you are quite an individual and don't "fit into the mold" of your society. This is true in many parts of your life, including your Venus (love) areas: Venus in Scorpio isn't a
bad placement (I have Venus in Scorpio, so how could I think it bad!), but it does mean that your Venus behaviors aren't what people expect. Here are some notes on Venus in Scorpio (that have to be blended with the Venus-Neptune and Venus-Jupiter ideas):
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Considering all of this (and your original question), I have a question for you: How comfortable do you feel in your native country (as a woman with your particular outlook and needs). I have a picture in my mind that Muslim countries are not especially comfortable or empowering for women, especially those who are strongly independent. Is this true? Is this a factor in how you have lived your life (or am I all wrong about that)? - I am sure you have the grace and tact to "get along" when you have to, though it is tough to ask a strongly Plutonian person to falsify who they are, what they think, how they feel, etc.
I'll be happy to look for other locations. First, though, I'd like to know if I've understood you accurately (in what I've written above). Also, I'd like to know if I'm right about what your life is like in Turkey. Finally, if you were to move, what geographic range is acceptable? (Where, or how far, are you willing to move?) - For example, there is an area in central Poland, around Lodz, that brings your Moon and Venus together quite strongly and might be ideal for the specific experience of finding love you feel "at home with": Is that an acceptable move?