Solunars by Aldebaran Sidereal Academy

Well, I have a friendly relationship happening with my coworkers that has veered into extreme flirtation. Problem? This man is only 29 years old. There's extreme flirtation going on through his end. I always got the weird sense he was flirting with me just through brief conversations we we would have in the hallways. I discovered this weekend that he's extremely immature. I'm not really that attracted to him. He's extremely gangly and awkward yet extremely funny and charismatic. I would never pursue anything with a man this age, but it's nice to have a goofy friend, and he's sweet in his own way. I'm sure like most guys his sge, he's casting a wide net. With how thick he's laying in the flirta3, I can't tell if he's actually serious.

His DOB is 07/4/2004

1st major component, his Sun/Saturn conj in Gemini is tight across my natal Moon.
His Venus is exact my Mars/Uranus conjunct with his Venus in Scorpio.
His Neptune is partile conjunct my midheaven
His fallen Mars in Cancer is Square my Pluto.
His Jupiter is exactly Conjunct my Sun.

If he was 20 years older, I would say it's fated.

Venus wrote:

Well, I have a friendly relationship happening with my coworkers that has veered into extreme flirtation. Problem? This man is only 29 years old. If he was 20 years older, I would say it's fated.

IMO, this could be your “outstanding incident” SSR angular Venus for Kingsville partile 135 your SSR Neptune (too young) and the possible thrill/excitement of your mundo angular SSR Venus partile 90 SSR Uranus manifesting. But, definitely take with a grain of salt since you relocated your 2023 SSR which would nix the angularity for your Kingsville SSR. But, remember the saying “any kind of love (flirtation) is better than no love at all ,” so that benefic relocated SSR could as well be a manifestation from this "too young" 29 year old. If it does develope further into anykind of sexual relationship---just try to have benefic fun with it and not take too seriously if it dissolves into a Neptune thing . Remember, you still have that tight class 1 SSR Moon 90 SSR Saturn no matter where your SSR set-up, which somehow/sometime will manifest in your solar year. Have as much fun as possible---life is short.

What a lovely example of the way astrology plays out in day-to-day life.

This is quite strong synastry! His Pisces Sun and Virgo Moon in any degree would have been a good match for your Sagittarius Moon, but his Sun is exactly square your Moon - a fantastic aspect. Furthermore, his Venus is exactly conjunct your Ascendant, which is as perfect an aspect for attraction and sustained adoration as there can be. If this guy doesn't already genuinely love you, he really likes you and has the potential to REALLY love you.

Then, the physical chemistry is significant (even beyond the chemistry already generated by Sun-Moon and Venus-Asc). His Mars opposite your Mars-Uranus says the momentum is to get physical. Yes, Mars-Uranus can be something temporary - not necessarily, but it's quite willing to be practical about such things in a given situation - but it's also capable of ongoing excitement. His Venus and Mars both in Taurus with your Mars in Scorpio is a more general indication consistent with sexual attraction.

I wouldn't file this guy under "unserious" or "fishing with a wide net" (even though the Pisces metaphor is great!). He's especially, particularly interested in you. Of course he'll move on if you aren't available, but that's a different question. (Oh, shoot, I hadn't even noticed his Jupiter square his Mars and your Mars for physical excellence. This could be hot!)

There is also a lot of respect - his Jupiter near your Sun, his Venus on your Asc, his Venus square your Mercury for ability to communicate. His Moon MIGHT be conjunct your Venus - it's surely close - I rarely see so many out-and-out "I love you" aspects in one pair of chart - you guys have the big three, all exceedingly close. (Along with "and we should start practicing making babies right now!" aspects.)

Of course... you know your own tastes and your own preferences. My Moon is in Aquarius, not Sagittarius like yours, so I always shake my head when someone introduces age for a factor AT ALL (other than for "age of consent" reasons) since, of the four most important years-long relationships in my life, one was 14 years younger and one 46 years older, covering a 60-year age range older and younger than me. (My chart doesn't do well with anyone born within several years of me, and Aquarius Moon never lates age be an issue.) I can't put my tastes and choices on you, but -WOW - this one could be somewhere between ThE ONE in the long run or an unbelievably good "ride at the fair" in the short run.

A birth time for him would be awesome.

Lol, sorry Jim and Steve. I was half asleep when writing that. His bday was 7/4/04.

Venus_Daily wrote: Mon Oct 09, 2023 10:07 am Lol, sorry Jim and Steve. I was half asleep when writing that. His bday was 7/4/04.

Aw, hell. - Well, I think you need to go out and find the guy born 4/4/04 because HE adores you and could end up the love of your life.

Jim Eshelman wrote: Mon Oct 09, 2023 11:01 am

Venus_Daily wrote: Mon Oct 09, 2023 10:07 am Lol, sorry Jim and Steve. I was half asleep when writing that. His bday was 7/4/04.

Aw, hell. - Well, I think you need to go out and find the guy born 4/4/04 because HE adores you and could end up the love of your life.

Thanks for the heads up, Jim. But 19 year olds are weird. Nice for flirting and attention given no one can really fathom my real age. It kind of makes me feel like a witch. Transits for the weekend were something. Venus/Saturn partile natal Mercury. Sun partile square natal Moon and transiting Moon on my Ic at midnight opposite this young man's Neptune partile.