Sexuality; Sexual Experiences; Tastes

[James Condor]

I researched the forum and didn't see 'Sexuality' as a subject by itself. I put this in 'Many Things' because I want the subject to cover Planets, signs, aspects and any other sexual derivation.

Mars and Venus are fore front in being known as being the sexual opposites. The standards as they are an easy place to begin with measuring other sexual characters on the spectrum.

Turn On's, Turn Off's, Tastes, Preferences. Fetishes

Forum members can come here to this topic and discuss such matters

[Veronica]

James
Did you ever play the game as a child....
Ill show you mine I you show me yours?

I have a scorpio stellium.
An aquarian sun
A venus/uranus aspect
A venus/mars=dec aspected by pluto
Everything is sexual
And anything could be a turn on depending....

Turn ons: confidence, kindness, humor, sensitivity, patience and receptive, likes fast cars, football and flowers

Turn offs? Lies, smelling like alcohol, unfocused, disrespect, animals on the bed.

[SteveS]

I was born with a mundo Venus/Mars=MC 0,08.
James wrote:

Mars and Venus are fore front in being known as being the sexual opposites.

Indeed! And being somewhat oversexed with prominent Venus-Mars aspects, imo. Some statements by Ebertin involving Venus/Mars:

Passion, Passionate love, desire, a strongly sensual nature, excitability, sex unions, an early sexual maturity, the beginning of associations based purely on sex.

And for Venus-Mars=MC:

Pronounced sensuality, an individual attitude to psychical love. The desire to become one with the other in soul and body, the establishment of sex-relationships (marriage).

When I first started learning midpoints from Robert Hand discovering Ebertin and Midpoints, and then discovered this Natal Midpoint in my chart, I knew right away there was some truth in Natal Midpoints involving angles. I have always been frank with all my female relationships involving my sexual tastes.
All of Ebertin’s quoted words above rings a loud bell with me involving my sexuality.

[Soft Alpaca]

I'm into chasing, yes like predator prey. I'm down with anything except for blood and fecies (except I dont like to be in any submissive places, tied up etc.)

Really into out doors, nature, graveyard (candle lit at night).Anything rough.

I have a Capricorn Mars-Uranus, which aspects Venus in Scorpio. Pluto-Moon leaves things very open as well.
My sexual preferences clearly have that satyr/nymph side of Pan from capricorn, and the agression from Scorpio and Mars/Uranus.

Turn offs? Bad breath, kissing when you arent going to talk to me after/ever again, and any sort of fake noises or talking.

[SteveS]

I absolutely love sex on mild dose of opium listening to rock/roll. This is seen in my Natal Mercury-Neptune cnj (mental drug stimulant) and Sun partile 90 Uranus (Rock & Roll).

[Soft Alpaca]

I'm not sure what type of opium your on but that doesn't sound like a bad time Steve. Although for me battle music would be cool too..

[Veronica]

I actual have come to see that the science of astrology is the science of sex and sexuality.

I came to this idea the other day when going through my old journals as an angry teen who would graffiti FTW on her pages.

Every human being is sexual. We came into existance via sex. Its our origin.

Now then we have a natal chart that shows the aftermath of that willful act of love or sex.

A there is the child.

And the world continues to spin. Transitting this way and progressing that.

How is the world, the transits going to shag with you today?

Astrology is also Yoga. The union of the polarities within ourselves seeking balance and harmony and expression.

The cosmos is our eternal lover, some days a beautiful venus jupiter kiss or a blood moon and somedays a sharp martian angle on the bottom.

We each have our own natal chart that expresses how we are made to love and respond to this cosmic lover, or a real lover as in a synastry chart. Like yoga no posture is bad, no asana is delibertly posed to hurt you or destroy your joints, like no aspect in a chart or transit is deliberately played to torment or hurt. Its our perceptions and conditioning and environment that predicts what we are capable of recieving from the astrology that we have and the astrology that goes on around us.

I dont say FTW anymore with anger or pain or torment. I say how does the world and I love each other.

[James Condor]

Turn offs behaviorally for me are inauthenticity, scared, anxious, desperate, unsure, indecisiveness, lack of purpose, lack of attention ( not being present), lack of respect, loud, not private or sharing our private info in an indecent manner. controlling, jealous. Laziness (lack of healthy lifestyle) Poor communication, poor attitude, withholding important information. Not being clean and tidy. She has to orgasm and we have to have a good sex life. Turn ons are basically the opposite.

Physically- high on list is weight, body shape (curvyness), facial expressions. Scent. Voice.
I am not picky on height. I prefer smaller rather larger breast size. Thinner or hour glass rather than thicker or egg, pear shaped. I lean towards skinny.

[mikestar13]

I've tried almost everything, with both genders. The nature of the relationship has always been the most important thing and I can't really really fully enjoy myself if I don't feel some actual love for my partner if only for the night--the specific techniques are secondary. That said, I do have my preferences. My favorite single thing however is giving my chosen lady oral sex. I still remember sessions from decades ago in vivid detail. One particular session leaps to mind: it was fairly early in my marriage to Sue and Josh was about two. We turned the music up and I went down... Sue had perhaps seven small o's (we both lost count!) on the way to the finale, which happened during Train's Drops of Jupiter. She exploded so intensely that she'd have put any man to shame by comparison. I can't describe the satisfaction I felt, a wave of warmth that just washed over me from head to toe. Then she returned the favor...and whatever else there may be to say about Sue, she is a superb sexual technician.

Though we haven't explored the topic physically yet, I suspect Terry and I will do better yet, because the love is more intense. The physical limitations are greater for both of us, but we're both also quite creative. And I know for a fact that my most important sex organ is between my ears.

In astrological terms, I have Pisces Sun conjunct Venus in the background sextile to rising Mars in Taurus, which is 3 degrees below the horizon in mundo. Also Aries Moon conjunct Pisces Mercury, with Mercury semisquare to Mars with a half degree orb. Moon-Mercury is also trine Pluto.

[James Condor]

I like the descriptions mikestar13 you aren't afraid share. If I like her enough, and she's open, anything goes. If she smells and tastes bad, oral won't work. Swallowing is a big turn on. I hate condoms. If she doesn't orgasm, I won't continue the relationship. (Down the road, as we age, and she can't anymore, I will understand)

[SteveS]

The biggest turn on for me in my youth was during foreplay with someone that I had not had sex with yet--was getting her so wet--both her legs were slippery down to her knees. I think this thread has a lot to do with this Super Moon.

[mikestar13]

I hear you James. There's a daylight and dark difference between can't and won't. That's why my marriage is ending in divorce, and less about the sex per se as about the love that powers it. And should it prove Terry and I have some things we can't do, we will enjoy the living hell out of what we can do.

[Veronica]

(Down the road, as we age, and she can't anymore, I will understand)

!!!What!!!!!
I never heard anything about old women not being to orgasm!!!
Rubbish
Thats a lie.

http://seniorjournal.com/NEWS/Sex/2012/ ... action.htm

Nice to know youd be receptive to life changes, but I assure you old women at 100 can still orgasm. Men on the other hand have less testoerone so lots can go miss. Id think it would be more realistic to say as You get older have less desire and ability.....youd hope shed understand.....which is why its impotant to show love and kindness in million ways other then sex.

[Veronica]

wellya know....
Ive read what you fellas said and Im like OMG.

The best sexual expierence s for me, had NOTHING to do with genitalia.

Seriously.

My most erotic sensual fullfilling moments with Craig were moments that you would never think as sex, and he wouldnt either, but left me in a transcendent state of bliss. All of my senses were engaged to the max, my mind was exploding with stimulus and all my simple dreams of pleasure were fulfilled- doing mundane, stupid things with the man I loved.

Its those moments of total egoless surrender, that happened daily that make me not even care about having sexual intercourse.

But then again the sex with him was the most tender and loving and mindblowing......thats the difference with having sex and making love. Everything we did for each other was an act of making love. He makes the best mashed potatoes.

[mikestar13]

I'd like to clarify my last comment (James can speak for himself.) My wife had no physiological difficulty having orgasms, though we had to change techniques after the my stroke because of my physical limitations. The can't vs. won't was the question of allowing herself to be part of the full mutual joy that should happen concurrently. No man likes to be treated like a charity **** in any case, but it's a dark corner of hell where a woman tries to make a man feel that way while she's having her fourth or fifth orgasm of the session. Yes, men and women do have a very different take on things. Considering the Universe was designed that way, I'm OK with that.

[Veronica]

No person likes to be treated as a charity shag.

It does hurt.

[Avshalom Binyamin]

A charity shag is pretty good when you're at a brothel.

[SteveS]

Raksasa wrote:

I'm not sure what type of opium your on but that doesn't sound like a bad time Steve.

You have no idea Raksasa. Read the next paragraph.

The earliest clear description of the use of opium as a recreational drug in China came from Xu Boling, who wrote in 1483 that opium was "mainly used to aid masculinity, strengthen sperm and regain vigor", and that it "enhances the art of alchemists, sex and court ladies". He also described an expedition sent by the Ming dynasty Chenghua Emperor in 1483 to procure opium for a price "equal to that of gold" in Hainan, Fujian, Zhejiang, Sichuan and Shaanxi, where it is close to the western lands of Xiyu. A century later, Li Shizhen listed standard medical uses of opium in his renowned Compendium of Materia Medica (1578), but also wrote that "lay people use it for the art of sex," in particular the ability to "arrest seminal emission". This association of opium with sex continued in China until the end of the 19th century.

The below quote is the exact formula used for the opium extract which many Vietnam Vets concealed in Black & White TV sets and sent home before their leave of tours. We would take this Opium extract and saturate our Pot and smoke. Back during Vietnam War the US $ bought so many goods in Asia, the opium extract was a steal. This was in the Days when the postal service had no ideal what was being smuggled back into US from Vietnam Nam.

Opium extract formula with some variations:

Other methods of preparation (besides smoking), include processing into regular opium tincture (tinctura opii), laudanum, paregoric (tinctura opii camphorata), herbal wine (e.g., vinum opii), opium powder (pulvis opii), opium sirup (sirupus opii) and opium extract (extractum opii).[117] Vinum opii is made by combining sugar, white wine, cinnamon, and cloves. Opium syrup is made by combining 97.5 part sugar syrup with 2.5 parts opium extract. Opium extract (extractum opii) finally can be made by macerating raw opium with water. To make opium extract, 20 parts water are combined with 1 part raw opium which has been boiled for 5 minutes (the latter to ease mixing).[117]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Opium

[mikestar13]

A charity shag is pretty good when you're at a brothel.

Not really, there is $ involved. A commercial transaction, neither love nor charity. Though the customer may choose to tell himself lies. I know, I've done it.

[Avshalom Binyamin]

It's a joke. Charity means a freebie.

[Soft Alpaca]

Raksasa wrote:

I'm not sure what type of opium your on but that doesn't sound like a bad time Steve.

You have no idea Raksasa. Read the next paragraph.

The earliest clear description of the use of opium as a recreational drug in China came from Xu Boling, who wrote in 1483 that opium was "mainly used to aid masculinity, strengthen sperm and regain vigor", and that it "enhances the art of alchemists, sex and court ladies". He also described an expedition sent by the Ming dynasty Chenghua Emperor in 1483 to procure opium for a price "equal to that of gold" in Hainan, Fujian, Zhejiang, Sichuan and Shaanxi, where it is close to the western lands of Xiyu. A century later, Li Shizhen listed standard medical uses of opium in his renowned Compendium of Materia Medica (1578), but also wrote that "lay people use it for the art of sex," in particular the ability to "arrest seminal emission". This association of opium with sex continued in China until the end of the 19th century.

The below quote is the exact formula used for the opium extract which many Vietnam Vets concealed in Black & White TV sets and sent home before their leave of tours. We would take this Opium extract and saturate our Pot and smoke. Back during Vietnam War the US $ bought so many goods in Asia, the opium extract was a steal. This was in the Days when the postal service had no ideal what was being smuggled back into US from Vietnam Nam.

Opium extract formula with some variations:

Other methods of preparation (besides smoking), include processing into regular opium tincture (tinctura opii), laudanum, paregoric (tinctura opii camphorata), herbal wine (e.g., vinum opii), opium powder (pulvis opii), opium sirup (sirupus opii) and opium extract (extractum opii).[117] Vinum opii is made by combining sugar, white wine, cinnamon, and cloves. Opium syrup is made by combining 97.5 part sugar syrup with 2.5 parts opium extract. Opium extract (extractum opii) finally can be made by macerating raw opium with water. To make opium extract, 20 parts water are combined with 1 part raw opium which has been boiled for 5 minutes (the latter to ease mixing).[117]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Opium

Actually I'm quite verse in the history of opium (from it being taught in school and personal reasons) and it's rather interesting, however my mom and stepdad are heroin addicts so I don't dare to try it. The injection form of it is the most effective delivery however I hope you haven't dabbled in taking it that way. (Smoking it is a little different).

That being said I'm the guy who wants to make hashish just to see if I can do it..

[Jim Eshelman]

In 1975, Gary Duncan and I gave sex interest questionnaires to quite a few peoplwho gave us their birth data. We especially euated tastes and behavior according to Sun and Moon sign. I wrote an articl3e on the result in one of the issues of The Constellations.(It {nassed} a few people off.)

[Soft Alpaca]

See Jim I don't understand in a way how that would nass people off. I understand how one can get upset if they feel like they aren't being described right (which there are many different perspectives people have on each other).

However if something turns you on, then you know it, and there is no argument about it (same thing if something turns you off). And unless people are debating if your pupils are actually a different size or of certain parts of your body are having more/less blood flow to them, there is no argument. And no reason to get worked up.

I am surprised Mars didn't play more of an important roll in that study. Venus is more subtle (but even so I can tell my sexual preferences have the saytr vibe from my Mars sign and the freedom/battle motif from my Venus sign).

[SteveS]

The East has understood the knowledge for “The Art of Sex” for centuries, using the right potion of Opium extract by smoking it in safe amounts. There is no doubt in my mind Vietnam Vets brought this knowledge back home.

[Benji]

Data for the forum,

I have been involved in two serious relationships in my entire life. One for 20 years (Married/Divorced) and a another one for 3 years (dating and living together/recently broke up). My current statues is Single.

Sexual partners in my entire life four (4).
The reports from all of my partners has been that I can be passionate...but, I tend to be on the goofy side. When it comes to love. I thinks the word Sublimation (In the Jungian definition) fits in here somewhere?

[mikestar13]

Yesterday, as part of our preparation for our upcoming marriage Terry and I had a very explicit and detailed discussion about sex. Turns out she loves receiving oral and is very much looking forward to the ministration of a passionate and creative man--she's never had both at once . She very much enjoys giving oral as well, and really likes to swallow. Sensual massages are a favorite component of foreplay. She needs to be relaxed and turned on at the same time and massage fits that need quite well.

Her Sun in in Libra and her Sagittarius Moon for a noon birth time is in a partile sextile to her exact (0 degrees 0 minutes) Mercury-Venus conjuction in Libra and in a one and a half degree trine to Uranus in Leo. Even if her birth time is such that the Moon is out of orb, she still shows passion and creativity. She gets from Libra (her Neptune is also in Libra, giving her a stellium) what I get from Pisces: it's all about dat Venus...

[SteveS]

Good to get these sexual matters out in the open Mike. "Lets Get It On"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x6QZn9xiuOE

[Arena]

Look at Venus and Mars for sexual expression and preferences - Moon more for emotional life, but can be connected of course.

[Soft Alpaca]

More about sexual preferences, I am young and Mars in Capricorn square Venus in Scorpio, leads me to desire passionate sex (in which I partake frequently). It has seemed that I for the first time have brusied my phallus (I've of course nicked it once, had an area raw another time, and had terrible flakey skin there to the point it had to be treated).

I can say that I'm a rather sexually forward creature as well (due again to the placement of Mars Venus square in my chart). Today I was again mistaken as a Scorpio and I'm being to learn that this may be connected to my sexual energy in life.

[Jim Eshelman]

I just stumbled on this old thread. Since it was written, there is a dedicated thread on this subject going into the topic James rightfully found missing:
https://solunars.com/viewtopic.php?f=10&t=4846

[Venus_Daily]

I must say, each time my Venus/Moon paran has come to exactitude on a lunar return angle (s), something sexual has happened. It's either a sexual advance or something else. It would seem that my biological femininity is intrinsically connected to sexuality, at least more so than other people.