rushed marriages and moving

[lexi2828]

I am supposedly having to rush getting hitched because me & my soon to be child’s father/fiancee are moving into a RELIGIOUS relatives (my grandma) house TEMPORARILY until we get our own spot again. I wanted to avoid doing this during the retrograde & maybe even avoid it for days after retrograde ends.

I also heard it’s unfavorable for the wedding chart to have ASC, Midheaven, Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars or Jupiter in 29 degrees (the anaretic degree) source: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum2 ... 12011.html (definitely want to avoid those transits)

The problem is my lease ends around the 22nd or 23rd of this month & we have to already be married before moving in with my relative. Which, I’m not sure if all the paperwork & the actual wedding date will be done by this time anyways.

I want to see if anyone sees this rushed elopement even happening this month or if I can get guidance on a favorable date for marriage between me & my child’s father in general (even if it’s not the near future or ever) because i can TRY to curb this & move POSSIBLY move in with my father temporarily instead, if dire need. (Since he doesn’t mind us having a baby otw while being unwed.) But my grandmas house is more favorable due to more space and the location. Just any advice overall would be very helpful.

Me - [redacted]

My S/O - [redacted]

[SteveS]

Lexi, we need to know your current residence or location for your last 2023 Sidereal Solar Return (SSR), and your residence where you will be located for your next 2024 SSR. Charleston? If Jim has time he will get back to you with details.

[lexi2828]

Yes, residing in Charleston, South Carolina for both 2023/2024 SSR. And thank you!

[Jim Eshelman]

God news: Ignore the retrograde issue - statistics have never supported retrogradation being a significant astrological factor and the 29° issue (to be blunt rather than diplomatic) is Tropical astrology nonsense inherited from Medieval horary astrology, stemming from the fact that for over a thousand years they really didn't know where the sign boundaries are.

For a good wedding chart on short notice (it's complicated but manageable) make sure your individual charts are well (or neutrally) aspected and put as many Venuses (and, secondarily, Jupiters) as close to angles as you can for the "I now pronounce you" moment, keeping Mars, Saturn, and Neptune away from the angles.

[lexi2828]

Thanks for the fast response, glad you cleared up that whole misconception of mercury retrograde and the 29° that I’ve been believing for years. With recently leaving behind my tropical beliefs, I am still very very new to Sidereal/Vedic and I am unsure on how to look into what you said to find a favorable wedding date on such short notice.

[SteveS]

Lexi wrote:

I am unsure on how to look into what you said to find a favorable wedding date on such short notice.

Lexi, only if you or Jim do not come-up with a better favorable time, and if it feels right and logical-- choose Sept 28 or 29. This would be a good time for a fated Venus marriage for you.

[lexi2828]

Thanks Steve!